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a href=http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y8skRpvZSwI/SY9b3EosNwI/AAAAAAAAAFo/-QwmORHRHZc/s1600-h/unattractive.bmp rel=nofollowimg id=BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300556288133707522 style=FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 172px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 200px alt= src=http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y8skRpvZSwI/SY9b3EosNwI/AAAAAAAAAFo/-QwmORHRHZc/s200/unattractive.bmp border=0 //a Did you ever notice how many very pretty women date okay looking men?br /div/divbr /divHere’ s what I know…/divbr /div/divdiv(1) Women care more about personality than looks. /divbr /div/divdiv(2) Women can grow to love someone if she is attracted to his personality. /divbr /div/divdiv(3) Women can change their mind about how attracted they are to a guy if she starts connecting with him over commonalities and interests. /divbr /div(4) Women will think that a guy with a great personality is hot whether as she will pass on a great looking man who just isn’t funny or interesting./divbr /div(5) Women will walk out on sex if she isn’t feeling chemistry./divbr /div(6) As a guy, you are better off being funny than being handsome. However, both doesn’t hurt!/div

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a href=http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y8skRpvZSwI/Sc5UaPvd98I/AAAAAAAAAQs/Z372qF49u8M/s1600-h/true+love.bmp rel=nofollowimg id=BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5318281019850094530 style=FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 166px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 200px alt= src=http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Y8skRpvZSwI/Sc5UaPvd98I/AAAAAAAAAQs/Z372qF49u8M/s200/true+love.bmp border=0 //abr /divHave you been wondering if chivalry is dead? /divbr /div/divbr /divHere’s what I know… /divbr /div/divbr /div1. Polite is polite- you don’t have to be over the top like standing up every time she goes to the bathroom, but basic politeness goes a long way. /divbr /div/divbr /div2. Girls notice if you open her car door for her or just head straight to the driver’s side. /divbr /div/divbr /div3. Girls notice if you allow her to go through the door to a restaurant first or if you plow through./divbr /div/divbr /div4. Girls notice if you buy a drink for her friend as well as her when you are trying to impress her. /divbr /div/divbr /div5. Girls notice if you offer to go with her to help her get her towed car instead of just saying good luck. /divbr /div/divbr /div6. There are men out there who are still very chivalrous- girls notice them, remember them and like them. Why not be one of those guys?/divdiv class=blogger-post-footerimg width=’1′ height=’1′ src=’http://res1.blogblog.com/tracker/19150957-6844774844736959394?l=missmatchblog.blogspot.com’ //div

Did you ever notice that women keep track of everything specific thing that goes on in a dating situation and men remember things more generally.

Here’s what I know…

(1) Women pay attention to every little thing that happens when she is dating and she microanalyzes all of it with her friends. She knows she shouldn’t do this because this is always when “her crazy” starts to rear it’s ugly head, but most women can’t help it.

(2) As soon as a woman “likes likes” a guy, she gets nervous that it’s all going to blow up, and is constantly searching for the slightest little thing that might alert her to the fact that things are going awry, so she can be mentally prepared. When the patterns stay constant, this keeps her calm.

(3) The most common thing a woman will microanalyze is a man’s pattern of behaviour- he wrote long flowing emails all last week and only one word answers this week or he made sure to ask me out 6 days in advance last week, but this week it was only the day before and then try to make the change mean “something.”

(4) Immediately when a pattern of behaviour changes, a woman believes that you have changed how you feel about her and has a hard time believing that you couldn’t call her or email her for 24 hours because you were crazed at work or you didn’t call her when you got home from a guy’s night because you passed alone, not with a bodacious blond!

(5) Women tend to keep their pattern of behaviour observations to themselves and to their “council of friends” until they can’t take it anymore and then they will hit you with “the laundry list” which will always scare the crap out of you because most days, you can’t remember if you put on clean socks.

(6) If you like a girl, try to stay consistent with her and if you need to change your behaviour for legitimate reasons, just clue her in. “Just wanted to let you know that I have a presentation on Friday so I won’t be able to see you for the next few nights.” “I am going out with my derelict college buddies, who I only see one time a year, and I will probably get wasted and pass out.” Or “I am not a big sleep-over during the week guy, but I can learn.” Communication can save her a lot of anxiety and save you from a big unnecessary blow-up!

Do you ever wonder if men speak a secret language that we woman are just not privy to?

Have you been wondering what it means if a guy you have been dating has NOT asked you out for Valentine’s Day?

Did you ever notice how these days, people are so willing to throw in the towel at the first sign of controversy?

Have you ever been on a date and something comes out of your mouth and you literally can’t believe you said it?

Here’s what I know…

(1) Everyone puts their foot in their mouth, a lot, when they are dating.

(2) You can always cover over a stupid comment with a giggle or a just kidding (the way you use LOL every two seconds in email) and hope for the best. If you have a killer smile or if you are a good flirter, the person sitting across the table will probably forgive your stupidity.

(3) Even if the first words out of your mouth as you greeted your blind date were ” Hi, wow, you look tired”, instead of what you meant to say that she looked great, you can still figure out a way to recover if you just are sweet at other parts of the night.

(4) Even if you told an ex-girlfriend that you are glad you dated her because it gives you “street cred” with other people, this still does not mean you are a hopeless dater, just a little insensitive at times.

(5) Even if you spent an hour talking about your ex when you swore you wouldn’t even bring him up, you can recover, especially if the person sitting across the table likes you.

(6) People who are looking to meet someone great, tend NOT to judge someone on 1 lone stupid comment, they tend to take things “under advisement” and wait and see.

(7) Instead of harping on the stupid or bad thing you said, and instead of bringing it up again and again (because that only makes the person remember it all the more), more forward in the conversation confidently and let the person see the real and thoughtful you instead.